He said: ‘There is no reproach
against you this day. Allah may forgive you; and He is the most Merciful of the merciful (ones)’.”
He said, “There shall be no blame on you today.”
He doesn’t even say, “I will not blame you.” He makes it third person and neutral and removes himself from the picture. Saying “I will not blame you” would make them feel extra guilty. He makes it generic and says, “There shall be no blame on you.” This is completely neutral.
Yūsuf is saying, “Today there shall be no blame on you. Allāh will forgive you.”
How can Yūsuf say, “Allāh will forgive you”?
What right does Yūsuf have to say this?
The wrong was done to Yūsuf, when he forgives, then they are forgiven because the ẓulm or injustice was done to Yūsuf.
As we know in our religion, when you commit a crime against a human being – when you steal someone’s money, dishonor them, backbite – then forgiveness is in the hands upon whom ẓulm (injustice) has been done, and until he forgives you, you will not be forgiven.
Allāh’s Forgiveness is easier than the forgiveness of this person because Allāh is Merciful and Al- Raḥīm.
When Yūsuf has forgiven them and they have repented, he can be certain that Allāh will forgive them because he has forgiven them.
The second interpretation is: “I hope inshā’Allāh that Allāh will forgive you.” There is a missing phrase and the meaning is: “I’m optimistic that Allāh will forgive you.” Both of these interpretations are valid, and there is no contradiction in them.
“And He is the Most Merciful of all those who show mercy.”
Remember that Sūrah Yūsuf was revealed when our Prophet (ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam) was undergoing the most difficult period of his life:
the year of sorrow.
It was the year when Abu Ṭālib died, Khadījah died, and the incident of Ṭā’if took place.
Allāh revealed to him Sūrah Yūsuf in order to make him optimistic and encouraged him.
When he stood on the Ka‘bah and called the people around and asked them, “What do you think I will do to you today after all that you have done to me and after persecuting and killing so many of my followers and after expelling me and my people from this land?”
They are all begging and pleading for mercy and saying, “You are our noble brother and son of our noble brother. You are our relative.”
The people are now around him. He cannot help but remember the exact same sūrah because of which Allāh revealed this sūrah. He recited this very verse to them. “There shall be no blame on you today. Allāh will forgive you. And He is the Most Forgiving and the Most Merciful.”
By this, Yūsuf (‘alayhi’l-salām) once again is showing his perfection by not mentioning any crime by name and by not saying,
“I am not going to blame you anymore.” When we forgive somebody, we say, “I forgive you.”
What did Yūsuf say? He didn’t even mention the ‘I’ because in this there is ego. He said, “There shall be no blame on you. Allāh will forgive you. He is the Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.”
Reflection
- Asking questions is one of the best ways of teaching.
- Wrong doing should not be corrected with another wrong doing.
- Taqwa and Sabr is the recipe to success.
- Allah will never waste the efforts of the righteous.
- Admitting a mistake is more dignified than defending it.
- Yusuf (u) pardoned and forgave his brothers so pardon people whenever you can.
- Always give the credit where the credit is due.
- Those who are righteous and patient will prosper.
- A Muslim is concerned about the feelings of his brothers.
- Comforting those who fear harm.
- Make dua for those who did you wrong.
Authentic Tauheed
— in other words he had forgiven them for what they did to him :
— Yusuf forgave his brothers so that Allah will forgive them
— if a person wrongs you . Allah will never forgive them
— unless you forgive them yourself
— they will have to give you all your good deeds,
— if they don’t have any good deeds to give you then
— they will take your evil deeds upon their scales
Explanations
- Tolerance is an important instrument of administration.
- One must learn from Yusuf’s humanity and generosity for he not only overlooked his own right but he also went out of his way to secure Allah’s pardon for his brothers.
- Men of Allah are in the habit of pardoning once they are at the climax of their power and glory.
- Allah’s pardon can also extend to include those who had for years been giving trouble to two of His prophets, Yusuf and Ya‘qub.
- Once the servant of Allah forgives what can one expect Allah to do? He is the Most Forgiving of all!
- To forgive those who are ashamed is the very habit of the Divine Being.
- To attribute Allah as the Most Forgiving and as the Most Merciful of the merciful ones is the ritual for the process of prayer and repentance.
Lesson
1) Forgive and show mercy to those who offend you:
He said: “No reproach on you this day, may Allah forgive you, and He is the Most Merciful of those who show mercy”. —
2). Do not be jealous .
So Yusuf (AS) forgave his brothers after how many years?
He was 7 when they threw him in the well.
He grew up in the house of the Minister until he was a young man in early twenties.
He then spends almost 10 years in prison. So how old was he when he finally became the Minister?
He was probably around 33 years old. And then another 7 years he spends as being the minister until the drought started.
He had not seen his family, his beloved father, mother and younger brother for almost 40 years.
It’s a very long time of suffering just because of jealousy. Can you see how our jealousy can literally destroy other people’s lives?
3) The hardest time to forgive someone is when he/she doesn’t apologize.
You want to let it go, but it’s like they still don’t see the wrong in what they did.
In such situations sometimes you have to wait until they are sorry for their actions and then you forgive.
Prophet Yusuf forgave them when he was in the position to take revenge.
He forgave them when he could have settled the scores by depriving them of grains.
So in some situations, if a person is not feeling guilty about his wrongdoing then if you can, create a situation to help them understand about their wrong doing.
Sometimes you have to wait for Allah to create such a situation – a situation where Allah may give you full control to take revenge, but then you choose forgiveness instead of revenge.
This is what Prophet Yusuf did. With all his power as a leader, he was in a position to take a revenge .
But he chose the sweetness of forgiveness instead. And this is the most important lesson that we can learn from the story of Yusuf AS.
4) What is important in the eyes of Allah is the state that you die in. So it is never too late to turn over a new leaf.
It is never too late to give up our bad habits and start a lifestyle that is pleasing to Allah.
At the beginning of the story the brothers of Yusuf were in one state and ended in another, and that is what is important.
5) We must trust Allah with our emotions when we are face to face with those who have hurt us deeply.
6) Allah uses even the negative motives of others to bring about His perfect purpose.